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What NOT to Say to Someone Struggling with Fertility — (And How to Actually Support Them)

It’s Infertility Awareness Week— a time to lift the veil on an experience that is often invisible, isolating, and misunderstood.

⁠If someone you love is struggling to conceive, knowing what not to say is one of the most powerful ways you can show up.⁠

Emily’s latest blog post offers thoughtful alternatives to common (but painful) phrases like:

✖️ “Just relax, it’ll happen.”

✖️ “At least you know you can get pregnant.”

✖️ “Why don’t you just adopt?”

✨ Say less, support more.

✨ Empathy over advice.

✨ Presence over platitudes.⁠

⁠🧡 Whether they’re navigating IVF, loss, or a child-free path—your compassion matters. 

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How to Support a NICU Parent: Do’s and Don’ts

Having a baby in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) can be one of the most overwhelming, stressful, and emotionally draining experiences for new parents. Parents of NICU babies face a unique set of challenges, from the emotional toll of watching their newborn struggle to the logistical demands of balancing hospital visits with everyday responsibilities. If you know someone navigating the NICU journey, offering your support can make a tremendous difference. But often, people don’t know what to say or do to truly help.

Tomorrow kicks off NICU Awareness Week, so in honor of that, here are some do’s and don’ts to help you support any NICU parents in your life.

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Grateful November

Emily spends each November cultivating time for gratitude. Join her this month and build your own practice.

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Lessons Learned

Emily writes about what she would tell her younger self after years of business ownership, parenting, and being a therapist.

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Feel the Feels

Emily writes about learning how to feel - especially when you’ve spent a really long time trying not to.

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